Once in a Big, Bountiful, Black and Blue Moon—
The Birth of an S&M Phenomenon
By Mistress Kali Ward (702) 341-0585
    

Blue moon, now I’m no longer alone without a dream in my heart, without a love of my own.
                                            
—From the song “Blue Moon”

     Question:  What do a volcanic explosion, a fierce monsoon, the Farmers Almanac, and an S&M fetish support group hold in common?  Answer:  The moon—a Blue Moon, that is!

     The expression “Once in a Blue Moon” describes something that doesn’t happen often, or perhaps never happens.  But what exactly is a Blue Moon? 

     Throughout history, the emergence of an azure-tinted moon seems to occur in conjunction  with catastrophic events.  For example: in 1883, a volcano exploded in Indonesia.  Its atmospheric dust turned sunsets green and the moon blue.  In 1927, a monsoon in India also whipped up conditions for a Blue Moon.  Therefore, although infrequent and precious, a Blue Moon does manifest from time to time, hence the phrase:  “Once in a Blue Moon."

     (Hold on!  I’ll get to the kinky stuff soon… But first let me throw in some science and history!) For instance in 1951, Sky and Telescope magazine also scrutinized the Blue Moon curiosity.  It found that Farmers Almanac used the term to label the third full moon in a season wherein four occur, or, stated another way:  the second full moon in one month, another rarity.  (A search reveals that, in an earlier 1937 article, Sky and Telescope actually originally delineated this revelation.)

     Why mention this noctilucent anomaly now?—Especially in conjunction with S&M?  During 2004, in the before dawn hours of July 31, a Blue Moon as defined by Sky and Telescope will again decorate the heavens—an astounding circumstance!  And this event,
it turns out, coincides with the sixth anniversary of PEP-Buffalo S&M Fetish Support Group, an organization I created to serve a society of kinky people as special and memorable to me as the rarity of a Blue Moon.

    
Long ago, the term “Once in a Blue Moon” referred to something that would never transpire.  Today the phrase denotesthe possibility of some odd occurrence like, say, those two full moons in one month documented by Sky and Telescope.  In another bygone era, fetishes and kinky obsessions often stayed hidden, undiscussed, unfulfilled.  They were considered as strange as a Blue Moon, or worse—sinister, evil.  Today, although the Dr. Laura and John Ashcroft types would not dub the S&M Lifestyle as “normal,” we—the kinky and sadomasochist—are everywhere: in churches and synagogues and shopping malls and supermarkets and at McDonald’s and the PTA.  No more need we skulk amid the shadows of the moon like some modern-day Jack the Ripper just because we love leather or ladies’ feet or needles thru our nipples, cunts or dicks. 
     Today via intelligent organizations like PEP, People Exchanging Power—in Buffalo and throughout the USA; via the Eulenspiegel Society in New York City (founded 1971 by Mr. Pat Bond); via the Society of Janus (created by the late Cynthia Slater in California, 1972); and via hundreds of other SM networks or conclaves which now dot the land since Pat Bond’s first courageous stance in 1971; Today—via this fellowship, co-operation, understanding, education, and enlightenment, we of the S&M community—who once dwelled in a netherworld of secret handkerchief codes and unstated, unexpressed erotic desires (paranoid because we believed ourselves perverted, sick, odd)—Today we possess the ability and the comfort to be with others of like mind and like longings, the ability, thus, to grasp without fear the fulfillment and happiness which is our due, our hope.


     
This July 31, 2004, when the next Blue Moon rises, please recall the anniversary of PEP-Buffalo, a special group of special people, and how PEP exists for you—the sexual iconoclast, the dominant, the submissive, the sadomasochistic, the transvestites, the fetishists, the kinky.

     Once in a Blue Moon?  No longer need we wait for a volcano or a monsoon or some otherwise huge event to thrust us—the kink-o’s of the world—towards other beings who’ll accept and embrace us.  Let every day and every night be our own personal “Blue Moon”—a time to reach out, to experience, to be our true sexual selves, seeking—like any other human—rapport, camaraderie, solace, intimacy and love.

   

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